We had just moved to a new area and needed a babysitter, we had three boys and I was pregnant with #4. I was working 12 hour days so I wasn’t always home but I thought things were going fine with our marriage and I was expecting our 4th child. Soon after I gave birth to our 4th and last child is when I found out about my cheating spouse, he waited until I left for work than called her over to our house, she would put the boys to bed at night, while he waited for her and the coast to be clear. He admitted to having sex with her for over a year and in our bed. She is still with him too, my divorce has been final for 6 months now and she won’t leave his side at all, she is always with him too. || I recently found out that she is expecting their first child which makes me angry. He ran off with our babysitter, knocked her up and now she won’t leave his side at all. She had her own apartment too which is where they are currently living, he moved in with her after our divorce. || It makes me sick to my stomach that there are people out there like this that will cheat. She knew he was married and should have refused to have sex with him and tell him that she needed to go home. || We are now divorced and I have full custody of all four kids. We are doing ok but I’m still hurt over the divorce.