Sara Silver Kentucky Kentucky

My husband was away working in Virginia last summer. I had a weird feeling because he was acting differently towards me, I knew something was wrong. I would call him at his hotel at night and he would not answer. This continued for a week or so, then I told him I hired a private detective to follow him one night when I knew he was lying about where he was. Being the idiot that he is, he believed me and came clean about”meeting someone”. He came home a few days later for the fourth of July week. We had rented a cottage at the beach with friends that was planned months before. I told him not to come, but he did anyway. At this time he began pleading with me to believe she was”just a friend” this went on for months, begging and pleading…. if I hear that phrase come out of his mouth one more time, I may lose it!  All the while he was showing pictures of her naked breasts to his friends. || Lets move ahead to December. At this point he had returned home fro

My husband was away working in Virginia last summer. I had a weird feeling because he was acting differently towards me, I knew something was wrong. I would call him at his hotel at night and he would not answer. This continued for a week or so, then I told him I hired a private detective to follow him one night when I knew he was lying about where he was. Being the idiot that he is, he believed me and came clean about”meeting someone”. He came home a few days later for the fourth of July week. We had rented a cottage at the beach with friends that was planned months before. I told him not to come, but he did anyway. At this time he began pleading with me to believe she was”just a friend” this went on for months, begging and pleading…. if I hear that phrase come out of his mouth one more time, I may lose it!  All the while he was showing pictures of her naked breasts to his friends. || Lets move ahead to December. At this point he had returned home from his job in Virginia for good. When he came home he was literally sleeping in his truck, because his lies got so bad and so out of control, not just to me but our family and friends as well, I refused to let him come home. In December I finally told him I wanted a divorce and I signed the paperwork to get it started. One week later, he came out on Facebook with pictures of him and his”friend”.  Apparently since I officially said we were done, he was ok letting me find out the truth… He was cheating and lying to me for 6 months. The feelings I had all along were true. He ended up quitting his job, leaving his friends and family, to move to Kentucky and be with her… WHO MOVES TO KENTUCKY? Pathetic lying adulterers who are afraid of being alone, thats who. Suffice it to say, she finally got to know MY HUSBAND, and who he really is. She kicked him out, and he is now living in Colorado ALONE, because its the only place he could get work… KARMA… Its a bitch! I contacted this girl numerous times to inform her that he was married and still trying work things out with me and she chose to believe his lies. When things ended this is what she sent me! || ¨-You know, here’s the thing; well besides your terrible spelling and grammar (Did you even go to post secondary school? Guess not.) Do you honestly think I care, or have cared about your opinion? Everything you have ever told me has been the wrong dates, times, scenarios, ETC. And you know what, I understand why; Brian is very convincing. He convinced me for some time that he was just an honest, normal guy who had a hard time. Love makes you do crazy things. But the truth is so far from that. I have seen what you have sent me, and I have seen what he has shown me, as well as what you have sent him, and what I have found on my own. I am not some “naive little girl” as you have once described. You didn’t have to tell me that Brian was trying to get you back- I knew he was because I knew that he is scared to be alone and he knew we were falling apart and have been for awhile. Your opinion has had zero influence on any of my decisions, and it never will. If I wanted Brian I would still have him married or not. You are the one who cheated on him first ( I’ve seen the messages you have sent him), and he and I met after that. I am too engulfed in my own career, yes “making a shitload of money” to care about a relationship that isn’t going anywhere and never will because I have desire for it to. I never gave you the feeling of accomplishment because it wasn’t worth my time, I could not have cared less. And honestly, I still do not really care that much, i just wanted to respond out of respect (due to the fact that I no longer care about either parties, although as a female, I just wanted you to know the truth). || As a female, I feel compelled to tell you that he will most likely try and come home to you. For good reason, you all are still legally married. But if I were you, I would steer far away- which is something I am hopeful you learned in your 8 years together. Brian is manipulative, jealous, controlling, and convincing; towards the end of our “relationship” I could not even go to the pool without him having the reaction of “really, you’re going to the pool in your bikini where everyone can see you?” Although I am sure you have experienced this first hand. You sent him a message in January, if you want him he is yours! Remember, you wanted him to listen to “Believe” by Stained. || I don’t hold any resentment against you or your sister, the messages mean nothing and I am not crazy ( locking myself in a bathroom and swallowing pills). Well, I probably wouldn’t have talked to Katie (my friend) because she is pretty much a crazy bad ass. So maybe not the same things, but I understand it hurt. I never gave you a response, because I didn’t care and I still don’t- I just want you to know the truth. || Oh, and by the way he has never had a photo of my boobs, so whatever “Dave” saw was a lie. I have more class than that. || Also, when we first started seeing each other in April of 2013, I looked him up on Facebook and saw that he was married. The evening I saw that I sent him a message stating “I am sorry I have to cancel our date but I don’t date married men.” He showed up at my door pleading, begging me just to “listen”. I should have known then that he wasnt worth my time. I should have listened to my head. You should also know that I am 99% positive he slept with the front desk girl at his hotel in Virginia. || I don’t know the true past between you and Brian. I only know what I know from the messages you sent to Brian about the end of you all’s relationship, and what he has told me. Whatever Brian told me could of or could not have been a lie. If you wandered, I understand, Brian is super crazy psycho jealous. But on the same note if you did cheat you should have just let it alone. When I found out he was married I told him I wanted nothing to do with him, and as you know as I said before I should have listened to my head. Two sides, hopefully two lesson’s learned. We both deserve better. Good luck.¨ || -My response || First off I’d like to thank you for being honest finally… All though I don’t know what’s true or not, seeing how my husband didn’t go to Virginia till end of May, and you say you met in April. || Second, I told him to listen to”believe” because he sent me the link to the song a week before. I sent that message to him for one purpose only… To get the truth out of him. He showed that message to his friends and asked,”what should I do, should I believe her”… They all, including my cousin told him not to fall for it. That’s why he didn’t respond to me, at first. By the time he did, right before he was moving, was much too late. You saw what I said to him… Everything I said to you and showed you was and still is 100% TRUE!!! You can believe whatever gets you through the night. || I know my husband is controlling and jealous, it’s one of the many reasons I left him. As for taking him back, I wouldn’t do that to myself. After all his lies and manipulating this past year, I’d be a huge idiot to go back. I’m in a relationship with a wonderful, drug free man, and I’m happy. I have a great life now, and it’s mostly because he’s out of it… As for your”bad ass” friend, she’s a fat cunt that has no sympathy or remorse for others. Both you and her can go fuck yourselves for making me feel like the crazy one. Knowing what you do now, you can own that! || Remember Sara, I’m the one who told you he can’t be alone. Why would you let him move there if you were”falling apart”? Especially after seeing his text to me about not wanting to go?! And”love”? How can you love someone whose heart belongs to someone else? The sooner you realize you were NEVER first choice, the sooner the healing process can begin. Hopefully you’ve learned a lesson. One that your college degree couldn’t teach you… And if not, I truly hope one day you find yourself in the position I was in this winter… In a bathroom with the door locked. Only you probably won’t have someone there who cares enough to save you. Karma is a huge bitch, and you surely made your bed! || PS. I NEVER CHEATED ON MY HUSBAND! || That was his way of making himself feel better about being a huge cunt muscle! || || >

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