I was the loving, caring wife that stayed at home while my husband of three years went off to OCS with the Coast Guard. He had been enlisted for 11 years, and I must admit, I was excited to become an officer’s wife, even though I had an amazing career of my own. || The first month or so, we exchanged loving letters and cards. He”couldn’t wait to be back home in” my arms. I patiently sat at home caring for our two year old son. We had even been trying for another up until the time he left. || In September, the OCS class embarked on a 10 day journey upon the CGC Eagle. On October 15, I discovered that my husband had sent and received over 1000 messages to/from a female crew member of the Eagle. I questioned him about this and my”perfect world” fell apart. || An investigation was launched and he was subsequently dismissed from OCS. I found additional pictures and emails between the two snuggled up in the CG office on his liberty weekend, when he could have been visiting his son. He had also put in for a Boston duty station so he could be closer to this ho-bag. || I apparently had no idea who the man was that I was married to. He threw away his family and his career…all for some 24 y/o MK3 that likes to ride bicycles (that’s why he told me he wasn’t happy in our marriage…because I didn’t ride bikes). || I’m not looking for pity, I’m only wanting to share my story to show what complete scumbags these men (and women) can be. My son doesn’t deserve this. My husband has refused to help with diapers, clothing or even toys since all this has happened. He has also refused to see my son, and hasn’t seen him since Aug 2012. || The CG has done everything they can to cover up this”indiscretion”. These two deserved to be called out for their behavior and disrespect to the service…and more importantly for the pain they have caused to my family. || I see that the Eagle is underway on a new OCS crew. I hope all those ladies are aware of the type of crew their husbands are around…namely MK3 Sarah Frazier. I truly hope that no other loving wife has to go through the pain and suffering that I have experienced.