December 2011, when me and my husband’s 4th child (our only son and his name sake) was 7 weeks old, my husband left me for his girlfriend of 2 years. My ex-husband is a Deputy Sheriff and at the time worked at the county jail. Sarah was a nurse there and she’d give him rides home from work often. I felt uncomfortable with their closeness, but he always reassured me she was too fat and obnoxious and that he’d never cheat on me. || They are now engaged and all my children call her mom, too. || I told her to her face she was a home wrecker and she filed a false police report stating I was harassing and stalking her. I was put in jail, but later all charges were dropped when the court system realized it they were bogus accusations.