I am married to a man with Borderline Personality Disorder. I had no idea until I was deeply entwined in his web. || I battled him over a woman for years before I married him, until I walked away. He approached me and begged for forgiveness , proposed. I accepted but on the terms that it would be a year before we did so because I wanted to make sure it had ended. || Four years into the marriage after I had worked my butt off making our home nice, paid for nearly every enjoyment we had, and was struggling to keep my son suffering from Lupus alive, I went to work and divorce papers had been sent to my job. I freaked out!!! I called him and he said baby no no calm down we will talk when you come home. || I knew right then something was up so I went to rent an apartment, and left. He waited 2 weeks then hunted me down and met me at a park. He seemed so happy to see me and cried to me how much he missed me. We began putting marriage back on track so I believed. We planned a new home, new beginning. || One morning while he was sleeping his phone received a message” good morning I love you” and I LOST MY MIND MADE HIM GET UP AND LEAVE MY APARTMENT. He called swearing there was no one and that was a wrong number. BUT that number kept showing up. I eventually caught him on Valentines Day her number again… IT WAS HIS CRITTER FROM THE PAST!!!!!!!!!! I LOST IT !!!!! || I confronted her and she said she did not care because I was evil and deserved whatever they did to me, THIS WOMAN DIDN’T EVEN KNOW ME!!!! || They began being more sneaky until I went out of state to be with a sick uncle and returned to find out THEY WENT TO FLORIDA TOGETHER ON HIS BOSSES DIME (REMOVED) APARTMENTS!!!! She finally broke down apologized said she had no idea he was still wooing his wife all those years between 2008 and 2013. || That didn’t last long. She never stopped seeing him and never stopped having sex with him . || I am now leaving my marriage a broken, shattered woman because of JIM SCOTT AND SHANNAN CRITTER PARKS.