†This photo below taken at the beach is of the WIFE! †Basically stating what I have always said that most often, men affair down! †She has had 3 kids and still looks absolutely amazing! †Above, the one sticking up the middle finger is the homewrecker. †Go figure! † || I was going on 5 months pregnant and trying to take care of 2 kids and a household. My husband started going out every weekend and wouldnít come home till Sunday evening. It was always an excuse and soon he was just picking fights for no reason. || He was so nasty to me and he would say I wasnít cooking enough or cleaning enough or taking care of the kidís right. I was a horrible mother and wife and there was nothing that I was doing to make him happy. || It really didnít start hitting me till August when I went into premature labor at 32 weeks due to the stress of him not being around for days and breaking my back trying to have everything perfect to keep him in the house. Unfortunately nothing worked. || Every time he would go out I would text him Facebook him, call him everything I could think of in my power. || The 32 week premature labor didnít matter to him. He was 4 hours away in Gatlinburg Mountains with Sharon Gunter. $400 a night suites she paid for his gas there and back and his stay with her. While he stayed there he screwed her the way she asked. She asked him to spit on her choke her punch her and beat on her till she passed out. They even made a few videos which she sent me later on down the timeline. || As far as I know she took him out to restaurants and movies and all kinds of places. I was going through my pregnancy alone and every single weekend I just got numb to him being away. It was like he wasnít even a part of my life anymore and he was MY HUSBAND!!! || He wouldnít sleep with me or even touch me for months and months and every time he came home from being with her for the weekend he would ask me for dinner or to help him pay a bill (like she couldnít?) || He started accusing me of doing the cheating and asking if my baby was his… WTF REALLY???! || He would text me drunk that heís going to drink till he felt better about himself… I thought he was directing these texts at me but I found out later that he felt so bad about cheating and he didnít have a way out that he would make up excuses and lies and start fights just so he couldnít face me then heíd go out drinking. || I started to look for apartments for myself and my kids and told him I wanted a divorce and I was moving out and taking them with me. || The day my real labor was scheduled due to stress he was there in the room but I got no support from him. The nurses did all the coaching and rubbing my back and hugging me and telling me all I needed to hear to get through 14 1/2 hours of natural non medicated labor. He slept and texted on the couch and watched TV. || He said after my baby came out that he was relieved she came out looking like the rest (like I was the cheater right?) smfh || He left me alone with baby that night and the next. || After I was released from the hospital to come home I drove myself and my baby and I resumed normal activity in my home. It didnít matter that I had just had a baby he wanted a clean house and all. The morning after my 1st night home he left me for the weekend to be with the bitch again and thatís when I knew I was finally fed up. My apartment was approved and I started the process of moving. The weekend came and he was out again and I was getting my U-Haul. || A few weeks passed and he said he wonít go out anymore that he just had to go out because he was feeling pressure because of the pregnancy and the new baby. (I didnít know about the other woman till a few weeks later AS IN HARD PROOF) He asked to go to a football game the bears vs titans in Nashville TN. I said I could get him a ticket cheap online and he said no he would stake out the football field over night to get one cheap. I went out and bought him a jersey to wear the next day so heíd enjoy his game to find out he wasnít even coming home and she had already bought him one… And she had bought the tickets and a room… || He came home like nothing happened. || Something told me to check his vehicle and I found her makeup and her receipts of the hotel rooms with his name and her name on it and thatís when everything hit me hard. I mean there were times when I was in the emergency room with both my kids because my son was having an asthma attack. I would call him and heíd say heís already too far to come back and help me or to pick us up because at the time we only had one vehicle and he always had it. I had to wait hours for a friend or a cab pregnant with 2 small kids a 3 and 2 year old… || I am sure thereís so much more I could say that she made him throw us away like we were worthless. This is where I learned my true strength that I could do it alone and without a man. I was out and about a week after my baby was born with all 3 kids out getting them food and formula and diapers because he was nowhere around. My son started asking me why daddy didnít want to be around us why he was always away… I had no idea what to say… I didnít want to tell him that another woman was more important than we were… How could a 3year old possibly understand that… †Mami why are you always crying? || There was one day my son said MAMI YOURE EATTING TODAY!!! I felt so bad because I needed to eat to breast feed and my son was seeing everything. I didnít realize I hadnít eaten. I lost 25 lbs. in 3 weeks or less after having the baby… || So much hurt by the both of them I just canít understand why someone would want to wreck my family. || I then found out after all was said and done that she was jealous of me and having my baby because hers was stillborn. || Donít hurt us because you are dead inside… || So I confronted her on Facebook and on the phone and she acted like I was in the wrong. ďKeep ya man happy and he wonít cheat on you. Sheís a country ass white bitch. No morals… || Constant harassment and even sent the sex video to me to see… I had to change my number and everything.† I hit my 5year anniversary and the weekend of he was out with her… || I donít know how Iíll get over this because Iím sure if I wasnít so tired with my new born I would have so much more to type. I want revenge but thereís nothing I can do to hurt her as much as she hurt me and my kids….