When I heard of this site, I thought FINALLY!!! I can let it out!!!! My marriage was good, or so I thought, for 12 years. But I started to notice something wasn’t right in about April of 2011. But having trusted Bryan, I thought it was in my head. || Well, the beginning of May my grandmother got very sick and I went to Philly with my family, basically to say good bye while she was still alive. I had asked Bryan to go as my Nana thought very highly of him. He said he probably couldn’t get off work. So I was texting him throughout the day with no response. When he finally did, he said he hadn’t had service where he was working. I bought it. || Should have gone with my gut!! So, I came home from work one night and decided to make love to my husband. I went up, and he was sleeping. So I got in bed and started to play. He ignored me. I was shaking, but still played for like another 10 minutes before he finally gave in and turned over. He made me get on top because it was me that wanted it, he said. He just laid there. He asked me what I was doing, and I said”reminding you who your wife is.” He said nothing to this but continued to lay there. We finished, and he turned over and went back to sleep. || The next morning I got up, and he was gone to work. So I got on just to check out my phone bill. The day I was in Philly, there were 100+ text messages between him and this other number. So, I text” You do know Bryan is married, right?” to this number. 9 minutes later I get a phone call from him screaming at me that it was over between us and he wanted a divorce. I was devastated!! || So, finally October 1st of that year, I moved out. The next day I snuck back in the house after he went to work to get some stuff, and she was already moved in! He moved her in the day I moved out! I had no idea who she was or what she looked like, but there was a pair of shorts in the bedroom that were twice my size!!! And this after he had told me that if I ever got fat he would divorce me!! When I finally met her, I was like EWWWWW!!!! She was fat, thinning hair, 41, as I was 35 at the time. Nasty looking!! || The day before what would have been our anniversary he had been harassing me the whole day because I had gotten in touch with her……. HUSBAND!! We both compared notes and stuff. She had left her husband and 13 year old daughter for Bryan, destroying 2 homes! Anyway, he said to me something I will never forget!”She is giving me the one thing you couldn’t!” And I said”the bitch is pregnant!” He said”yes!” So, she had gotten my husband, my house, my dogs, and even my SUV! And now was going to have the child that I had wanted to have so badly with him! She knew he was married as was she, and didn’t care! She continued!! || So, now they have a daughter, lost the house, he lost his job, she doesn’t work, and he is ok with this life?! And yet he won’t sign the damn divorce papers!!! Sorry, I am still bitter. The picture is their happy little family! Funny, they say men want a woman that reminds them of their mom, well, his mom is about the same size, so maybe!