I was with my Husband Jordan for 4 years and married for 3 of them. My best friend Sonia introduced us in March 2009 and we became really good friends. Jordan didn’t have a really good home life or family. So my family took him under their wing and moved him in and bought him everything he needed or wanted, He was like a son they never had. They found him a job, got him into college and provided him with a car. In September 2009 we started dating and We fell in love, we took a family vacation to Disney World in May 2010. As we were watching the fireworks in front of Cinderella’s Castle, he got down on one knee and proposed. I said yes and in Nov 2010 we were married. || I was best friends with Sonia for 9 Years, we did absolutely EVERYTHING together. She was always with a different guy and always cheated on them. She was”engaged” two different times and even bought her own engagement rings. She also claimed she was pregnant several times and lost the babies due to miscarriages. It seemed she was always trying to trap someone just so she could get pregnant. She was dating this guy in the Army for over a year and in October of 2012 he got deployed. While he was deployed she had a”guy friend” who she was using for money and said he just wanted to pay her bills for her to be nice. It sounded a little odd because what guy will pay all your bills and spend 1000’s of dollars on someone just to be nice. So I told her to stop asking him for money because it was wrong and she had a boyfriend over seas. In March 2013 my mom and I went to NC for a few weeks to visit family and my husband couldn’t go because of school and work. I came home early to surprise him and he was literally in tears because of how much he missed me he said. So after I got back Sonia started hanging around more and whining because she had no decent place to stay. So since she had money she moved in with me and my husband because she was practically homeless. None of her family wanted her living with them or they already kicked her out. So I felt sorry for her because she was my best friend and she was family to us. I trusted her and she ALWAYS said Jordan was a brother to her! || Family and friends noticed he was paying a awful lot more attention then seemed appropriate to Sonia. My mom overheard the two of them talking one day and he told her”someday you’ll make a great wife”, and Jordan and I both told her that she had to move out. In May 2013 he just up and left without a warning, I thought it was due to his depression because of issues with his father. I gave him space and a few days later he moved back in. Things seemed fairly normal with his depression except ticks were developing. On Father’s Days he made a comment,”I wish someone would give me a Father’s Day present”, which I did because we have a fur baby/ dog together. The ticks were so severe that day that while we were in the car, the jerks were so hard that it shook the car and scared me, thank god I was the one driving. || On July 3rd, 2013 he abruptly left again for no reason. I begged him to tell me what was wrong, as myself and everyone else we seemed to have the perfect marriage and he refused and told me” I will tell you sometime but not now” On July 4th I went to his mother’s house one night where he was staying to talk to him and when I pulled in the Drive way I noticed Sonia’s car and I knew that something was up. His mother wouldn’t let me in the house because she said he didn’t want to talk to me. So I barged in anyways. I found both of them in the room with guilty looks on their faces looking down at the floor. I asked them what was going on and Sonia acted like I had no business being there and Jordan was her man. I asked if she could leave the room as we were married and we needed to talk in private and she left the room. I asked what was going on, he said”I will tell you but only if you promise to leave because your going to hate me”. He was still being quiet not giving answers so thinking the worst I asked him”are you gay?” He replied No! I asked if he had a STD he said No! I hear Sonia in the other room puking her guts out, and I realized and I said”OMFG shes pregnant, isn’t she?” My Husband then told me”Yes! 3 months, with my baby”. || I was heartbroken ,2 people I trusted totally, betrayed me. Looking back, all the events make sense. First time he left she would have been late on her period, The intense ticks on Father’s day he would have known he was a father to be, and the comment on Father’s Day Sonia made to me while he was playing with his nephew,”He will make a great Dad someday” all makes sense. They both knew and instead of being mature and responsible adults and coming to me to tell me I had to find out the hard way. The hardest thing to wrap my mind around on June 28, 2013 Sonia sent me a long text stating I didn’t have to be nervous about them talking and she was just try to help him with his depression as she struggled with it herself, and she just wanted us to be happy because she loved us both like brother and sister. Knowing the day before she had a ultrasound and even posted it on Facebook and on June 30th my family moved her into her new apartment with her boyfriend who will be coming home from deployment, knowing she was pregnant with my husbands baby. Not sure how she planned on hiding her pregnancy from her boyfriend whose been over seas for the past 10 months. || As you can see by the dates it was days that she packed up the apartment and was living with my husband at his mothers, the plan was I was never to find out about the baby and he was to stay with me, As to the original affair I was never to find out and neither was her boyfriend and was to just to be a fling. Now that there was a baby involved it complicated the original plan and he asked her to have a abortion but she wanted to keep the baby a secret and raise it on her own and my husband being a part of the baby’s life as Uncle Jordan. Obviously the over whelming guilt shown in his deep depression and severe ticks that he finally ended up leaving. I asked him why, his reply was”I wanted to try something different”! || Well Karma is a bitch and have fun supporting a child who is having a child considering you cant even support yourself!”Sorry Not Sorry”!!!!!!!