Oh where to begin? Had the Perfect Marriage, he was supportive, sweet, kind, and loving. We were together 16 years and we were married 7 of those years. He started becoming friends with this married bitch. She was a co-worker of his, and to really make it worse, she was my daughter’s boss. He even drug me into it. I was invited to the HW house for parties for their 3 kids and her husband was there so I never thought anything was going on…Things started to change. He was acting mean like he had never been before. At the time he had my complete trust, I had no reason to think he was cheating on me. I just thought he was going through a phase like an early mid life crisis. It got really bad, and I started becoming suspicious of his phone calls and the need to be out with his”friends” all of a sudden. I checked his phone one night but he caught me, and put a password on it the next day. (Should have known at that point, right?) I got the phone records and saw the calls TONS of calls for hours at a time to her. I confronted him, but he said he was just talking nothing going on other than that, and she’s married, so there is nothing to worry about and more lies.Finally one day he was out”playing basketball” and I saw an e-mail pop up on his computer. I clicked on it, and it slammed me hard when I saw nude photos of her. I immediately copied them to disks and sent them to my computer, sent them to my mother-in-law… I was so PISSED. I called him and told him I was going to send them to her husband. He came home amazingly fast and begged me not to send the pictures to her husband. He had every right to be afraid of him, he was a shady kind of guy. I started yelling and screaming at him (looking back should have just told him to leave, but those emotions are so strong, it’s hard to explain if you have never felt it before. I kicked him out, he packed up his clothes, and went to his mom’s house. He came back later that evening crying REAL ALLIGATOR tears that he can’t live with his mom, and he has nowhere to go, (NOT that he was sorry for hurting me, or cheating on me) and STUPID me thinking I can make it work, and I can’t give up so easily. I let him back in the house with (empty) promises that he will cut it off with the HW Bitch and go to a marriage counselor. He agreed, and moved in the spare room, and it got worse from there. He lied about everything, I went to the phone company and saw that he was talking to her like before. I wanted to KILL that HW Bitch, but had to stay away because it was not worth the jail time I would have served had I ran into her. She claims that her husband was cheating on her, if that is an excuse to ruin my life? || He ended up moving out, we are getting divorced. I can’t trust that POS ever again, and the things he said to me are things I will never forgive him for. It seems very common for them to call their wives CRAZY and stupid, like it is going to justify what they have done. He tried to get her to leave her husband, but she wouldn’t. It”Broke his heart” LOL!!! He has been with a few others now, and I am sure it just a matter of time before he does it to the next one. My daughter quit her job with the HW Bitch so she does not have to see her any more. So, life is OK, even though I trust no one, and probably never will, at least I know I am strong enough to be on my own and a good role model for my daughter (Who is an adult). I wanted her to see that no one should ever treat her this way, and be strong for all those women out there who have been cheated on with these sorry pieces of shit HW. I think everyone should know what a piece of crap she is. She is not to be trusted by anyone.