Ok so my husband and I met freshman year of high school. We were both in foster care. He was absolutely in love immediately and made that well known to all. We had our first child at basically 21(2weeks before I turned 21) and married when he was 18 months old. He had asked me multiple times but I always said letís wait to make sure itís what we want. After we married we had another baby the following year. During my pregnancy things started getting rough. He had an affair with a local bitch who knew we were married. After baby was about 6 weeks I caught him in a lie and his response was domestic violence. I put him in jail. He did a year in state prison. || We decided to work that out because it seemed so odd after so many years he was against DV. Anyways he came home and all was good. We moved out of state for a fresh start in September of 2012. In October he found a job and met a man named Kendall who I found out later was a town whore himself. Anyways in January of this year Kendall introduced him to Stacey by taking him to her house one night. On February 8th I came home from work to a note on my bed saying we need time to think. We had been arguing a lot about him going out all the time. Well one night to think turned into a month. Mind you we were still seeing each other. I would take him to work etc. The last night of that month, where he had me believing he was living with a guy friend in the apartment complex, he asked if kids could come play with the guyís kids. They ended up spending the night. Next morning my 5 year old tells all! He said there were no kids and no guy just him, his sister, his dad, and his dadís friend who was a woman. They even put my 2 year old daughter in the bed with them! That same day he called and said he wanted to come home and be away from all those people because of drugs. So I let him and we moved forward. || A month later on April 1(day before our 4 year wedding anniversary) he left my daughter alone with her and went to meet my friend to get my son he forgot at school. Me and my friend had a thing where if we didnít see the other we would grab both kids. So I confront him about my daughter being left somewhere and he uses violence again. Didnít hit me but still caused marks/bruises. So I kicked him out and put a protective order. Cps stepped in but hardly. After 3 weeks of no communication he shows up to court with proof he is getting help with anger. He was medicated. So I dropped the restraining order and we start talking and he says he was truly afraid he would lose me completely. He didnít move home right away but he was with us every minute I wasnít working. || We move to another house last month but the homewrecker who he lived with both times wouldnít let go. One day I found a text from her saying ďif we ainít together get your shit from my houseĒ. Thatís the same day he brought his stuff back home and moved in so I took it as he was done with her. Well we move in to new house and she wonít stop calling and using his weakness against him. He was on drugs both times at her house and was trying to stay clean. But she used every trick in the book. Even having his male friends ask for help with things just to get him there because she was there. Well the drugs got to him. One night we were up late after he got off work watching movies. Well the new house we found out has mice. He got up for water and saw one so went on a freak out about it at 3am. He starts spraying some bug spray and I get hit with the smell. Iím gagging so I go outside for air and sit in my car its 4am and I havenít slept so I fall asleep for 30 minutes (his words) in the car. He gets pissed and wakes me up bitching that he had to deal with our 2 year old who is potty training while Iím sleep. Omg!! You had to spend 30 seconds to turn on the bathroom light and send her back to bed when she was done? She does it all by herself but canít reach the light switch. So it turned violent again. So I had him arrested and put another restraining order but by 11am cps was there to remove my kids! Iím like no I put him in jail to protect us so yaíll arenít taking these kids. They went to his arraignment that same day to tell me the details. I wait in the car for them to come out. They say his bail is 30,000 and he has one dv charge and 2 drug charges. Right behind them out comes the homewrecker! By 5pm the same day he was out and at my house with cops to get his stuff. || I in the meantime I have been looking for somewhere else to live. I just got accepted to an apartment Friday and I will be moving in a couple days. I still have my restraining order against him and Iím not looking back. He has tried lying to cps thinking that if they take kids from me he will get them. But he is stupid all they will do is go into the system and Iím not having it! I have since been contacted by another woman on Facebook asking about a laptop she gave him and admitting they slept together. So I guess there are at least 2 now. But Iím so beyond done. I know I was stupid for all the chances but I was in love. I still love him yes but I will never be with him again. I donít think Iíd have the chance even so because his doctor said to me the other day that even without the drugs, he is bound for a heart attack or kidney failure based on tests done for his diabetes. Add the drugs and his sweet tooth to that and he isnít going to make it long. But the only ones who would suffer are me and kids. I hate him but donít want him dead. And this woman with the dope doesnít seem to give two shits about him or she would keep him away from it.