14 years ago while I was 7 months pregnant with my youngest, who is now 14. Stephanie Ann Lofgren, soon to be Stephanie Ann Strickland pursued a Married Man, my husband whom we had three children together, a four year old, 16 month old and one on the way. Stephanie was 19 at the time and now is 32 and broke up our family yet again. Ray was home for Christmas, put a ring on my finger, and told me and my 3 children this was forever, the whole time Stephanie was back in Minnesota planning their wedding. Ray has a warrant in the state of Indiana, and a criminal warrant for check fraud. She sent me a picture of the two of them and told me I won 14 years ago, but not this time, what’s meant to be will be! Have him; he has had numerous affairs including one with my best friend as well as my son’s girlfriend’s mom. Once a cheater, always a cheater, he cheated on her with me at Christmas. You aren’t any better; he will cheat on her too. Now you can take care of his financial train wreck and criminal ass.