I married Stephen (mike is what he likes to be called) so I married Mike in May of 2013. Things were great. We met a few years before on an online dating site. He was always sweet and funny. He moved to WA with me to get away from the lives we were living in UT. We found out we were pregnant and everything went downhill. I made a huge mistake and I hit him during a very heated fight. I went to jail for the night. When I got out we decided to work through it. I started counseling and kept asking him to come. I know I shouldn’t have touched him and I am still working on my anger issues. Well a couple months after I got out of jail we learned that I lost the baby. We went for an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. That destroyed us. That was in August 2013. In Nov Mike went to UT to visit family. He planned to talk to an ex about how she kept messaging him and trying to get him back. Like a fool I said I trusted him. Well they talked. They also made out. I was pissed. We got into a fight and he started ignoring my calls and would talk to me. Well he got back from UT and we talked decided to work it out. This time he would do counseling too. We would work together instead of me just getting help. It wasnt until a couple weeks later that I found out that the night before he came home he had sex with his friend Bree Sherman. He swore up and down that she started it and took advantage of him when he was upset and missing me. I really was a fool when I chose to stay yet again. || Fast forward to a few months later. June 2014 we got into a fight. He left and went to my sisters house. Well It turns out that while there her friend Jessica (removed) came over. The two flirted and talked. They had my sister drive them to jessica’s house. Saying they just want to smoke weed. Well he has sex with Jessica too. I stayed with him through so much. He was the father that my kids never had growing up. After every fight its like he would work harder and harder to be great with the kids. while more and more he ignored me and verbally and emotionally abused me. I know I made the mistake staying as long as I did. I have learned from this though. Happens once. Shame on him. Happens twice shame on me. I wont let a third time happen. I am currently trying to start the process for a divorce. I just want to get his name and my story out there. It turns out that he did the same to his ex wife too. I had been told that she cheated on him an he left her for it. Truth is her was sleeping around the whole time they were married.