I’ve been married 10 years and have a beautiful 8 year old girl and a 6 year old son. We were always a close family. The relationship with my husband had always been great I mean every couple has problems but we always talked. || In March of 2010, my husband began chatting with his old Marine friends. After a few months he began to change towards me. We were fighting a lot. We stopped being intimate. || In one occasion I stumbled on his chat room he had this trailer park heifer. He had a lot of messages from her. Apparently she like to pretend she is all alone in thus town that her ex lied in court to take her kids away, that she if very ill and it’s hard for her to work. All so he could help her out with her bills. She also tried to convince him to leave me and told him she would help him with our kids. According to what I read they were together several times. || When I confronted my husband he told me that they were no longer together that he found out she had others and she was in fact very popular on base. He swore to me that he never meant for it to go that far but that she had told him she was pregnant, he left her because my husband had a vasectomy after I had my son six years ago. || We tried to work things out but I keep thinking of this fat bitch on him and I can no longer be with him. I can’t forgive him. I’m too hurt and I can’t believe he was this stupid.