I first found about Suzanne Ruggieri while browsing my boyfriend of 10 years friends list on Facebook as he had just joined in Nov. 2013. I noticed this girl from the Bronx, we live in Central NY State so I thought it odd he had a friend from the Bronx. I didn’t think much of it because at the time we were getting along great, he had a good job, we spent a lot of quality time together. Dont get me wrong, we’ve had our share of problems as he is very insecure and possessive and I’m very independant and own my own home, my own business, college educated wile he struggles with unemployment and insecurity issues. But we had 10 good years together at this point. || So I am posting a link to his wall on FB and I notice lots of suggestive and flirty comments from this Suzanne Ruggieri the girl from the Bronx. She loves his eyes, he had her at hello, just too much for a simple female friend. || So I look at her timeline and see she is posting pics of herself with captions that say things like”you make this tiger purr, for you, and YOU GOT ME WITH YOUR EYES. BAM! she was talking to MY MAN!! || So I message her and ask her if shes seeing him and she says” yes I am, he said you 2 are split up since summer and mind your business bitch I don’t owe you any explanation, hes mine” . I’m furious at this point , so needless to say I confront him and he totally denies knowing her except she used to live in same apartment building before he and I started dating. He said omg have you seen the size of her? Shes enormous. Which is true, she weighs at least 275 and is approximately 5’3″ tall. Buck teeth on the top and no lower teeth. So I believed him that she is just a psycho stalker and let it go. I’m 5’3″ also but 140 lbs, above average looks and can have an intelligent conversation with anyone. || She starts texting me saying she had to dump him because he borrowed money and never paid it back, up till that point they saw each other every day during the day, having sex multiple times, she knows all about me, and that he loves her. So I demand we do a 3 way call with her and he totally dissed her and said he never had sex with her, has never been to her house, he loves me, she needs to leave us alone. She becomes irate and spills her guts that he comes to her house everyday day during the day, (I work days) and sometimes spends the night. She was screaming at him to tell me the truth and he shut her right down. He hung up but she and I talked. She went into graphic detail about him and she knew things she couldn’t possibly know unless she’d been with him. His likes, dislikes, pet names for his anatomy that I gave him, everything. She also knew all about me. hmmmm how did she know about me? || So now my radar is on full swing. We had multiple fights over her and he said I was crazy to listen to her, he even made a gagging noise when I brought up her name. She is very fugly. || So time goes on and my woman’s intuition is going, hes very attentive but call me every night (we don’t currently live together) to tell me good night. he calls me every morning to say he loves me, as usual, and asks what time I’m going to work. Another red flag. I actually lied to him a few times when I had the day off but said I had to work and parked in a lucrative spot to try and catch him going to her house, but nothing. So I think maybe not. But that gnawing wouldnt go away. || Now its late April 2014 and he calls to say he has to go help family members with something , he would call when he got back in 3-4 hrs. RED FLAG. || I immediately got in my car and parked to where I could see if he was going to her house. I waited 50 minutes chain smoking. Just when I was ready to pack it in I spotted him!! I followed in my car and pulled up just as he was going up her front porch stairs. || BUSTED!!!!!! || I was literally shaking so much I couldn’t have driven another inch if I had to. I laid on my horn and he turned and all the color drained from his face. She was just coming out onto the porch to greet him and he said” don’t tell her nothing!!” || I yelled out get your ass out her we need to talk!!! I asked them both as they stood on the curb”are you fu**ing? he said no she said yes!! || I told him to get in my car, which he did and she came running over and asked who do you want? who are you really with? He told her twice”Suzanne I’m with her” she started screaming at him and he tried to shut her up because she was telling me he was there every day, sex multiple times per day etc etc etc…. I just wanted to throw up. I turned to him and asked”me or her???”. he said”YOU” she kept screaming so he got out of my car and ran down the street. || I stayed and she was more than happy to tell me all about their relationship. She kept saying”but you 2 have been split for 6 mos” I showed her pics of us together with the timestamps,call logs, fb msgs, told her days and times we were together, she checked her juvenile journal of all the times he was at her house, I can’t believe she actually kept track. She refused to believe we were together. She chose to believe his lies and told me she is still going to continue with him whether I liked it or not. || Well I caught him red handed so he couldn’t lie is way out of it this time but after investing 10 yrs it hurts like hell. He’s a sex addict, he would have to be to be with her, shes so fat and nasty. And she is a very desperate woman who doesn’t care about taking another man who denied being with her to her face many times. But he will go back because what you allow will continue. Karma will get both those Bit**es.