Well, it all started about a year or so ago. I had been with my boyfriend about six months at the point it started. We were just starting to get serious. I’m guessing this had something to do with it. Sometimes this can freak people out. || He goes to a bar (not a big deal, the man’s not a dog I can put on a leash.) Anyway, she was there. From what I’ve been told they instantly hit it off and were having a good time. All the while I’m at the house with two small children (not his, mind you, but they were attached to him as a male figure at this point). I know a lot of people aren’t going to agree with this, but I harbor no bad feelings towards him for this. I put this on her for SEVERAL reasons. First off, he broke up with me the following Tuesday. It wasn’t a situation that went on for weeks or months, but I was still crushed. So I find her on facebook after a little investigation. Her attitude towards my heartbreak was atrocious. She was very smug and acted like she had accomplished something picking up a guy in a bar. At one point she said”Oh, well, I have a chance to be happy so I’m gonna take it. REALLY?! knowing you’re just the product of panic and going back to old, BAD habits? What’s that say about her? Let’s start with the fact she is uneducated, hasn’t had a job in years, and has made no effort whatsoever to better herself. She claims this is because she’s a mom. Please. I have two small children at home, one older child that mind you doesn’t live with me but I provide for financially. No child support, not a dime from my children’s fathers. (One is from a teenage relationship, the other two from a previous marriage.) One child is mentally disabled to the point he can’t even speak. I still get up five days a week and go to work. AND SCHOOL. I’m college educated. The way I see it, it’s nice to have support from a man, but it’s not necessary. I can make it on my own if I have to, nothing will stop me. She sees men as a paycheck. Took one look at him, saw a military style haircut, and the cash register dinged in her head. She has destroyed herself with decisions she made in the past. Maybe if she hadn’t abused her body she wouldn’t be in her mid thirties and looks years beyond that with NO TEETH. I’m only three years younger than her and get mistaken for a teenager often. Moral of the story, drugs are bad. Then she has the audacity to encourage mass texting of my phone bullying me telling me how ugly I am and how I’m a terrible person and how he’s so much better off with her. First off, her friends need to learn to spell. Second of all, she has no teeth. Any argument about looks is invalid. and finally, no that bleach blonde crap on her head is NOT a good look. || That insanity lasted a whole month. He and I got back together, still are (I know Iím gonna catch flack for that, don’t care. My life, my decision). After a month of her mooching he saw the grass was not greener and decided to come back. || A year on from this, all is right in my world. He and I are very open and honest with each other, something he hasn’t ever had. It boils down to with the exception of one other person other than myself, he is used to being with this type of trash. He went back to what he knew when he got scared of our stability together. There’s no more fear, we are well on the way to being together for the rest of our lives at this point. She was just a selfish, ignorant, wanna be homewrecking bump in the road. || p.s. Slashing my tires after he came back was so very traumatic. I’m completely helpless and have no idea how to jack a car up, take a four way to get the lugnuts off, put the spare on and drive down to the tire shop to get new tires. Sixty WHOLE dollars and the situation was fixed. Maybe if she had a job instead of living off mean and supported herself she would’ve realized that wouldn’t exactly break my bank.