Tammy Alvarez Ozona, Texas Texas

Well my story starts in 2010. My”husband” and I have been together since high school, so naturally we’ve had our share of up’s and downs , make up’s and break up’s but never anything like this. It all started when my husband got a job here in our home town of Alice,TX. It was a welcomed relief cause up until then we had been struggling. Well anyway, things were great with our family (He, I and our 3 babies) we had extra cash and I didn’t have to worry about our bills anymore so of course, things were less tense at home so we got along a lot better. || Well anyway, we were doing so well that this man whom I’ve loved for so long finally proposed, we’ve talked marriage before but he finally had the money to get me a ring, I was so happy! Well fast forward to September 2010, his job is going to move to Ozona, Texas and that means more income for the guys that go, so he asked me if I thought it was a good idea, I trusted this man so

Well my story starts in 2010. My”husband” and I have been together since high school, so naturally we’ve had our share of up’s and downs , make up’s and break up’s but never anything like this. It all started when my husband got a job here in our home town of Alice,TX. It was a welcomed relief cause up until then we had been struggling. Well anyway, things were great with our family (He, I and our 3 babies) we had extra cash and I didn’t have to worry about our bills anymore so of course, things were less tense at home so we got along a lot better. || Well anyway, we were doing so well that this man whom I’ve loved for so long finally proposed, we’ve talked marriage before but he finally had the money to get me a ring, I was so happy! Well fast forward to September 2010, his job is going to move to Ozona, Texas and that means more income for the guys that go, so he asked me if I thought it was a good idea, I trusted this man so much that I never thought I should have ever questioned him being alone, so I said yes. He said he would be coming every weekend and I agreed that was fine. In October he returned for his cousins sweet 16 and to take our children trick or treating, he acted fine, he returned to Ozona a few days later and that’s when the strange behavior began. He didn’t call frequently and when he did all we did was argue. He had gone to Arizona with his boss for a different job when he called and said they were stranded and they would be flying back to Corpus Christi and he would call when he got there. I was excited to see him, I wanted to figure out what his deal was and our babies missed him. Well the end of the day was here and still no call, so I call him, his phone was dead so naturally I panic, what if something bad happened? I call his voice mail to see if there is anything helpful and BAM that’s when I hear it, the voice of a female I don’t know, she said”I know you must feel weird with what happened, I hope to hear from you soon, I miss you” my heart nearly fell out my chest. Who is this bitch telling my man she misses him?! I finally got in contact with him and he acted like I was crazy! He ended up going back to Ozona that night but I wasn’t going to give up, I tried and tried to get that number, I wanted, no needed to know who she was and what the f**k was going on! || Well needless to say our relationship got worse and I knew something was really wrong, I felt it in my heart before I heard that voice mail and that feeling got worse every single day. Well he stopped sending us his money and our sons birthday right before Thanksgiving, he was visibly absent for both and without money I could not get my son anything(he had talked me in to quitting my job) I was devastated. Luckily his sister was kind enough to get my son some stuff to celebrate his birthday. || Well about a week after that he finally came home but he didn’t come straight to our home, he went to his sisters first and got drunk out of his mind with my brother-in-law. This was so stupid, his kids were here, but it was whatever. Finally when he got home he didn’t want to be near me, he acted as if I were the bad person, this naturally broke my heart. That night I tried to investigate but his phone was MIA so I couldn’t so I accepted defeat and went to bed. The next day we were driving in town and I hear a buzzing, I grab his phone from under the seat and EVERYTHING is deleted, he’s never been one to delete anything so I found this odd. I searched further and found in the drafts folder several text messages to the same 325 number. My world crumbled around me when I read that first text”did you enjoy the sex” its etched into my mind….I was livid I didn’t even think I just looked at him and knocked the living day light out of him! I screamed what the f**k is this?! How could you do this?! I thought we were moving forward! He said nothing! He never denied it he just cried. I called that bitch up from his phone and she answered on the first ring. I said why the f**k are you calling my husband, she says no one is calling your husband, yea ok I just made up your number in my head! Well that night was a long one and she finally spoke and said I treated him like shit and I didn’t deserve him. I was dumbfounded, why would you think you had any right to be the judge? You have NO idea what he’s put me through! Well anyway, he promised he wasn’t going back and I made him call and tell her she was a mistake. || Morning came and he was gone I called him and he was on his way”back to work” sure…the months that followed were hell, I was depressed and at the brink of death…I’m not proud of it, but I felt broken and incomplete, I’m literally in tears just writing this, I couldn’t cope with this. My mother-in-law told me I needed to move on and I started trying…. || Well back to December, he actually came but spent no time with our kids, I caught him on the phone with this thing more than once. I wanted to know who she was and why he kept going back! So when his phone died, he thought he could safely leave it anywhere (he had lost his charger) I got it when he was sleeping I put his battery in my phone and got it to charge…there it was, pictures, text messages, she was saved under”babe” in those text messages she was feeding him bullshit that I shouldn’t be the way I am with him and that she’s going to kick my ass…wtf? Seriously? You act as if I were the other woman! I called her up and warned her who she was messing with. He was part of my family not hers and I will fight for what I love! She tried intimidating me, which made me laugh. || Weeks go by and he was back over there, he calls and says he quit his job and that he’s coming home, except it wasn’t him, it was an empty heartless man. He treated me horribly and kept talking to her behind my back. Finally he took off again then came back, then left again. I dealt with this for a couple months. Then in April on the 24th(Easter and the day before my birthday) I woke up and he had left while I was sleeping, he took my phone with him. I cried so much. Well I was still worried about him, I mean I love him, what if he didn’t leave me, he was drinking that night maybe he got in an accident. My friend drove me around to look for him, but nothing, no one knew anything. I even called this bitch and told her we were worried about him and of course she lied and said that she hadn’t heard from him, she was too pussy to say what was really going on. || Well I gave up and we were going to go when my friend says, maybe he came to his dads to clear his head. We were already by there so I said pass by and there was his car! I was relieved. I got off to knock , oblivious to the other vehicle parked on the road, they open the door and there was the big bitch, she runs to the back room and omg I was infuriated! I called that bitch out, I said you’re here now do something! Little piggy never came out…she hid like the coward she is! I don’t know but somehow all her windows got broken and her lights got busted, while she coward inside. Still nothing , well Leroy took her side and they called the cops saying I did it, what me? I would never! Oh you saw me? Prove it! || Anyway my friend got me a phone for my birthday and I was determined to move forward. I was fine, I cried on my actual birthday when he never called, knowing that for 9 years I had never spent my birthday without him but I shook it off. The next week I started CNA classes, I was getting paid to go and he knew that, so on the second or third week he called asking for money, I told him I wanted nothing to do with him and that he found his way there to find his way back! Well she stupidly paid for him to come and he told her he loves me and that he was coming back to be with me….it took a while but I accepted him back and forgave him. You may think I’m dumb but I’m not innocent so I forgave him. We are still together and after some time we are doing wonderful and planning on finally getting married. He’s wonderful again and treats me like I’m the only one in the world, not a day goes by that he doesn’t remind me of how much he loves me… || ||

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