About 2 weeks after the new year I started noticing that my husband was acting strange, he was working out of town at this time so I decided to look at our phone records and noticed a number I did not recognize. Lots of call, texts ect. So I texted the number pretending to be him and it didn’t take long before she was telling me all the dirty things she wanted to do to my husband!! And telling him if he still wanted her to come visit him out of town. Needless to say I was furious and shaking like crazy I wanted to know who this bitch was. Once she realized she was not talking to my husband she ignored my text yep just like a coward whore!!! So I did the reverse number thing and lo and behold its his ex from like 20yrs ago!!! I confronted him and of course he denied it. I finally after weeks got her to own up and tell me the truth after all I am his wife thats the least she could do. Mind you we have been married 15yrs and have 3 boys together. So after talking to her he was lying to her saying we were separated liar!!! I informed her that we were very much married and to back the fuck off.Several months go by and I’m thinking they are no longer communicating, boy was I wrong. I get a text message from my husband and its a picture of a naked girl and guess what it’s not me! The dumbass was bragging to his friends and accidentally sent the pic to me. Idiot. I knew it was her, so I called her and of course she wouldn’t answer. But I found out that he had gone to her house for the weekend so they could play house. I left and went to my sisters. I was devastated I felt like I couldn’t breathe. Why was he doing this to his family. I went back to our home in Louisiana he is working in Texas and over the next several months I’m at home alone with our 3 kids while he’s playing house with this whore!! I could not even begin to tell you how painful that was. Crying all day just wanting to sleep through it all. I shut everyone out I was breaking down more and more. Meanwhile to make things worse she is taunting me and rubbing the affair in my face texting me telling me she’s going to marry my husband my response to her was he’s already married bitch! I just couldn’t understand how someone could be so cruel.My husband begins to see the side of her that I always saw. After about 3 months we decided to try to work things out that he’s done with her. So one weekend I go visit him in Texas ( I’m still living in Louisiana) he falls asleep and I pick up his phone to find a message from her on Facebook so I start reading the messages. And til this day these messages haunt me and I will forever be changed as a wife, mother and women. This bitch is pregnant Yep you heard me pregnant!!! I was mortified. But she doesn’t know who the father is apparently there’s another married man involved. Go figure. After reading this I did not scream and yell as I thought I would I calmly packed me and my kids all while he’s sleeping and I got the hell out of there. Drove back home on my 4 hour trip, not remembering how I even got home. I was in such shock. But I did leave him a nice note telling him to enjoy his father’s day and maybe he should call his baby momma. I also took his phone.Well that sunday he comes to my house begging and pleading. My biggest thing was he didn’t have enough respect for me or his kids to at least put a damn condom on!!! Really!!! He tells her he wants nothing to do with her that he wants to fix his marriage. So we don’t hear from her the entire pregnancy. December she has the baby starts making him feel bad for not being there. So I tell him I want a DNA test. Over the next 2 yrs this girl randomly sends me pics of the baby again rubbing it in my face laughing about it. Which I find nothing funny about the situation here’s a baby that doesn’t have a father because one she doesn’t know who the father is and two hes married. I feel sorry for this child.So over these two years of course ive been through hell dealing with this trying to fix my marriage trying to heal from this. I have so much anger. I was talking to my brother about it and he says to me”you were that little girl” my dad did this to my mom. I know ironic. So I sit down with my husband and I tell him ok here’s the deal if you want to be apart of this childs life I have to be 100% involved no exceptions and this girl has to respect me. So we contact her to let her know we want to be involved. Mind you she has been texting my husband saying she feels bad that her daughter doesn’t have a dad blah blah blah so he tells her the stipulations and guess what now that I’m ok with it she wants him to have nothing to do with the baby and she’s not sure its his. Shocking!!! || It was very hard for me to come to terms with this and be willing to make sure this child has a father but clearly that was not what she wanted. She wanted my husband. This has been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through and staying was not easy. But I have let all my anger go and it feels good! As far as this homewrecking whore this will not be her last married man so be aware.