My husband and I have been together for 9 years married 2 as of November 1. We owned a restaurant together that we both worked full shifts at! Well last November we hired a waitress named Amy and she had a 20 year old daughter that was 8 months pregnant at the time, she started hanging around at the restaurant. I let it slide because she was young and pregnant and I knew her mom was trying to keep an eye on her. About the first of December or so her boyfriend, the father of the child or so she says comes back from wherever he was. She had the baby at the end of December! Over time her and the baby would come in and eat and I would talk to her and love on the baby hold him while she ate feed him etc. || Well about March my husband and I were at the casino and I walked up to a machine where he was playing and caught him texting her, I questioned him about it and told him it was wrong and didn’t look good, well we were just talking about her mom (my waitress). I was checking on her she wouldn’t answer her phone, so I let it go! On two different occasions I walked up on him texting her and I went nuts and he did everything he could to make me believe that it was nothing they were just friends but I just had that gut feeling it was more! I changed her number in his phone just to see how far he would go to talk to her! We had just bought a brand new home and we were working outside in the yard when he gives me his phone to hold well he gets a text from Larry that says good morning, I asked him why in the hell is Larry telling you good morning oh he’s prolly hung over well I check the number and low and behold it was her number under his name. I flipped out I texted her back and told her to stop f**king texting my husband. I get no response. My husband and I get into it he tells me she has never sent anything like that before and he just doesn’t know why she is saying things like that and yet again, he’s trying to make it like its nothing, they’re just friends. All night he’s done his best to convince me and going so far as having make up sex before we went out that night. || Well come Monday morning I go on our wireless account and see tons of text between them I mean on a page of 50 40 was between them. I call her mom in there and ask her if she knew that her daughter and my husband were communicating that much, she said no I swear I didn’t know. I go in the kitchen and smash his phone and tell him I’m not gonna pay for him to talk to some whore. I tried calling her, calling her from different phones, texting her she never would answer so I went on Facebook and publicly told her to stop texting my husband, that he was married and she had a boyfriend. No response nothing outta her! A little time goes by and her momma says she is moving back to Lubbock. My husband tells me the same thing so for a short time period I think she’s gone. Well I find out she had only moved into town. A few months pass I still had the uneasy feeling but was trying to get over it all, he would tell me he had no use for a 20 year old he would tell me do you really think I would entrust the care of my kids to a 20 year old, she is just a kid herself and what in the hell makes you think I want a baby around just one lie after another! || My husband and I fly out to Vegas for July 4 well he insisted he get another phone before we go so he goes and gets one. We had a great time one night we were sitting at Emerils getting dinner to go and he is shit faced he starts crying telling me how much he loves me and doesn’t deserve me and tells me I’m too good for him and to please never give up on him! I’m like OK I love you too and I won’t give up! We get home and a few weeks later I start to notice him lying to me about where he is going saying he’s going to the store or something but yet is sending our employees Id call the restaurant and he’d be gone but not answer his phone and he’d give me some off the wall story! Well on August 9 we had a family day at the river with his family so we load up and go we spend the day and then we come home JD goes to lay down cause he’s so tired he leaves his phone in the living room I get it and go to the back room. I find a private gmail account I open it and there was nothing in the inbox but the trash was full. I open the trash and BOOM there there they are tons of messages between them, my husband telling her how much he loves her and wants to marry her and she will be the true mother to his twins (which are 10 and I’ve been their mom/step mom for 9 of those years), her saying she will be taken care of and have everything she wants and needs (can we say gold digger) he was going to her house, she was going back up to our restaurant he was giving her food, money, and gifts! Him asking her to tell him when again, as to when he’s gonna leave me and she’s gonna leave her man she says I thought we were gonna wait til we knew we would be OK. You wanted to do it the right way so your wife doesn’t know you left her for me. He was telling her going to bed again with no sex cause if he isn’t getting it from her he isn’t getting any (and i think that stupid little bitch believed that, there definitely was no slacking up between us in that department). I went in our room woke his ass up and told him to get the fuck up and get the fuck out! One of our vehicles was in the shop so I called his parents ( I smashed his phone yet again) to come get him and they wouldn’t so I went and got his cousin and told him to go get him out of my house! He left will only his clothes, his fishing pole, two bottles of crown and just a few other things and the twins! He took the twins to their moms. He stayed between his parents his cousins and her moms house! Not even a week later he had moved her into his parents house. My mother in law and father in law moved out to their camper so him her and the baby could have their bed! || I gave him nothing. No money, no vehicle and he’s living with his parents, he went from owning his own restaurant to flipping burgers for 7.50 an hour, which I heard he walked out on the other day cause he got mad, ha! I’ve also since noticed in one of her pictures she has a necklace of mine on that I’ve investigated some and think he gave it to her sometime in June I’ve since told her but she didn’t seem to mind being given the wife’s jewelry! He told me from the start he would not keep the twins from me, well after I would not pay his resisting arrest ticket and he now has a warrant out for his arrest he has decided I can’t see the twins anymore! I have since told him I would fight for step parent rights and he threatened to kill me! He doesn’t even call them so why should he care if I see them! Those kids are just like my own, but the home wrecking whore is trying to get them to call to call her mom. He’s doing his best to make everyone believe he didn’t leave me for her that we split because we didn’t get along well he’s right about one thing, he didn’t leave, I kicked his stupid ass out when I found the messages he just wasn’t ready to leave yet. He said he couldn’t pay that ticket he did not have the money and I told him well you have been planning on leaving you should have planned a little better! || He does his best to make me feel bad because he says he can’t feed his kids can’t find work and blah blah blah and I tell him is to tell his whore to get off her lazy fucking ass and get a job. I’m done feeling sorry for you. I did not do this you did! Hope you and your whore have a miserable f**king life together!