So here it goes… My husband left June of 2013 for 8 months. We had started divorce paperwork then, some things happened and it got stalled. He came back and actually rented my spare room out for about 5 months. At this point things were going good. Our two year old son loved having dad around daily and yes, sure, we got intimate here and there. September was approaching and my mother was moving in with me so I was going to need the spare room where he was sleeping. Therefore in August I asked my husband/roommate if he wanted to get his own place or work at our marriage, go to counseling, and come back into our bedroom. He decided to stay. We went to a couple sessions. At the end of September he went on a fishing trip. I was a little suspect but I was going to trust him and give him the benefit of the doubt. When he came back from that trip the sex we had was incredible and full of the emotion we had been missing for a while. I truly felt this was a turnaround moment. A few days later a photo surfaces on Facebook. I confront him. Teresa was an ex from Vegas about 11 yrs ago. || He said he had a fling with her when he left last year and she was “psycho”. I actually had a conversation on Facebook with this homewrecker asking why she posted this “old photo” but never got out of her that he was with her. We got over that hurdle. November comes around and hubby and I haven’t gotten far with anymore counseling, he hasn’t contributed more to the household other than his “rent”; certainly not what he used to as a husband and father. Naturally my wall is up. I give him another out, we have the talk, with the why are you here, do you want to still be here? He still wants to stay. Miss Teresa with 8 Facebook profiles has popped up another time, she creates a male profile and friend requests me, my mother, his sister, and a few other mutual friends of mine and his. His responses all the time to her is just ignore her and she’ll go away she’s just crazy.We get through Christmas. Finally it all happens in January, we were out and I got tired of him looking at all these other women. I know all men do it, 1, 2, or 3 ok! Hell I even pointed some booty out to him. But when you’re “working at your marriage” 5, 6, or 7 is enough and when you have to break your neck to check one out, in front of your wife, while holding your son, surrounded by people, YUP you’re going to get the cart ran over your ankles.That started the ball rolling on the total amicable divorce. I helped him find a place in the town he works in. He moved out in February. My mom and I helped him get it settled in while he worked. On his days off he stayed at my house a few nights, we worked out the paperwork to submit to the paralegal. We were still getting intimate. Then I had to be in his town for work so my son and I stayed the night there. He was asleep next to me and here comes the text….”Love You” sent from her. I reply kindly from my phone with I love you too. I asked him the next day about it, he says wrong number. She ends up calling me just before we are about to eat dinner and it all comes out that they had been together since August, 7 months, the entire time I thought we were trying to “work at our marriage”. All I was, was a just a place to stay until she was able to move up from Las Vegas. She made monthly trips up here (400 miles) just to be with my worthless husband. The sad part is he says he stayed to have more time with our son but he was always working “overtime” or on a fishing or hunting trip, spent with her. If he would have just left in the beginning visitations would have given him all the time his schedule allowed. She was here for Valentine’s Day weekend. He was off for 6 days and spent 10 hours with his son. The rest was with her. He even created a fake timecard to show me. But I knew deep down what was happening……Oh DAMN your new car got keyed???? That’s SOOO messed up. What’s even more messed up is he took her to the Hycroft Christmas party! freakin scumSupposedly she wasn’t relocating at the time when she found out we were still having sex; but my ex does have a great way of sweet talking and persuasion. And as I am writing this we just signed our divorce papers, they should be filed this week. On his first 2 nights with my son (tonight) the stupid W**** has brought her skanky ass up here. He is the scum of the earth. I warned her, she may get lucky and get a year or 2 out of him then he’ll leave her too. She left everyone for him and will have no one here in Winnemucca. The ones that will suffer will be my son who gets attached to her and her FOUR children who will do the same with my ex.All I know is that I have to protect my son and show him multiple girlfriends/boyfriends are not a normal thing. The sad part is that the ex doesn’t think he did anything wrong and will never apologize. He is actually going around telling people that I was crazy and wouldn’t let him leave. Also telling me that I knew he was only there for our son. Please I have more dignity than that and the fact again is that he WASN’T there. He was with her! She says that I was showing my son a bad example, that no matter how much a man lies & cheats on a woman she is too stupid to leave, well she is showing her daughters that it’s ok to sleep with a married man for 7 months and have a key part in him leaving his family.We had a huge amount of supporters whom he has alienated now including his own family; they are all on my side.