I’m not sure the exact date that this started because apparently my husband had on and off flirty contact with Terra Burass our entire relationship, and after they had sex. Prior to the discovery of the affair, we had been together 14 1/2 years. In summer of 2009, he went and visited her a few times, and they had sex. He says they only had sex once, but who can trust a liar? She was engaged to be married at the time. They continued to have an on/off inappropriate relationship until I found out last June.