Thomas Ryan, the man that ruined my marriage, and change the perception of my reality forever. Thomas Ryan met my wife via common friends on Facebook last September. We had been going though a little rough patch in our lives and this is how she held it together, by having an affair. We have 2 young children together ages 7 and 6 and have been married a total of 9 years. || Thomas is 31 years old man, living in his parents beach house, while attending (Removed) College in San Luis Obispo. My wife found these flaws to be okay in her eyes, he has no job to support her or a home to call his own. He was able to lure my wife into his Bed by giving her attention and being her confidant. || The affair started off simple enough as Facebook posts led to Facebook messages, and then on to Texting and phone calls. He also convinced her to take enormous amounts of nudes and lascivious pictures that she sent to him. They also partook in hours and I do mean hour of Skype call, doing all forms of phone sex. These actions took place for the next 2 months. || In early November my wife told me that her co worker had invited her to attended a concert out of town and that she would be spending the night away from home since it was a drive. Little did I know that she had no concert to attended but in fact she was planning on drive 3 hours from Clovis, Ca to Oceano, CA to let Thomas f**k her. On November 29th my wife left me at home alone with our 2 kids and drove those 3 hours to have Thomas f**k her. || It took me another month after all this happened to finally put it all together. I had a feeling something was wrong and checked our phone records and her Facebook. Then I was able to sneak her phone while she was sleeping and found Skype on and other deviously used apps on her phone. I confronted her and she admitted to everything I knew and more. || Thomas Ryan, didn’t care one bit about the family he was in the process of destroying nor for what he was doing. He only cared about fucking my wife and more so since I found out he hadn’t had sex in 4 years. Anyone that would be willing to do what he had done, will cheat on his GF or his future wife, and I think she should know before it’s too late.