My husband and I have been married for almost 19 years and together 20 years. We have 3 kids and now a grandson on the way. I just found out in February that my husband had been having an affair for 6 years. Back in 2007 my husband was working at a company where this whore also worked. I went to his office one day and I saw him standing outside talking to her, but I didn’t think much since they worked together, but it still gave me a hollow stomach. I wanted to go inside his office and the building and he refused to let me and he started acting differently which caused me to have a horrible gut instinct that something was not right. || He was spending a lot of time on the computer and protective of his cell phone. I confided in a friend who showed me how to put a program on the computer to track key strokes. I got a conversation between him and this nasty, ugly ass tramp, Tiffany. Now at the time, his conversation was very civil. She was the one being persistent. I confronted him and his answer was, itís just the way she is… I’m not doing anything etc. †As time went on, she got fired from that company which made me feel better but then my husband decided to change jobs a good year after she was fired. I asked him if she worked there and he said no… After he gets hired, he proceeds to tell me she got hired after him. I went to his new job to pick up our personal vehicle and he again wouldn’t let me come inside. Now I know why because this bitch is ugly as F*** and he had to be ashamed. || As time goes on, I tried to snoop in his phone or always investigate. I was never successful. I didn’t focus too much of my time on it because he always told me he wasn’t doing anything and our relationship seemed rock solid. We didn’t fight, we had a good sex life, we had fun together all the time. So I thought it was just her being a persistent whore and him shutting her down. Then one day he gets a text from her on his cell phone that I happened to open up and it said,”do you wanna do lunch or do me?” well, once again, Iím on fire and livid… He again manages to convince me, itís just her, the way she is. I asked to meet her, and he would never let me. I even called her up and she told me herself they were just friends and I told her she better back up. || In 2010 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I went thru 5 surgeries, 6 rounds of chemo and a lot of sadness. I would never ever have suspected he was being unfaithful with how awesome he was to me. Loving, supportive, and always with me and by my side. He was truly amazing. Well, he was living a double life. With her in the mornings when I thought he was at work, and at home every night. Who does that?? Pursues a married man whose wife has cancer? A WHORE!! If he went out of town for work, she went with him. She met our mutual friends and they all knew about it. Nobody told me shit. Some friendís right? I will never trust anyone ever again. I never got past the insecurity in my stomach that something was not right. But I tried to put it past me. || Well, on February 27 2013.. I kept getting unknown caller calling me. Every time I answered, they hung up. In the meantime, my husband was pacing so bad I was like what the hell is wrong with you? The final call we put it on speaker and she happened to blurt out, your husband is a cheater! Everyone heard my kids and their friends as well. I knew right then and there, that was her and her slutty ass voice. My husband I got into and I left for a little bit. He cried, he told me she was crazy, showed me her text messages, and begged me to please forgive him. He told me he had been trying to get away from her, but every time he tried, she would threaten to kill herself or cut her wrists. She texted him pictures of her wrists, left voicemails acting like she was choking breathing and dying. He fell for it all and was scared she would hurt herself so would always keep her at bay by telling her things she wanted to hear just to keep her quiet. He should have let her kill herself. He would have gotten off scott free! || When her plan didn’t work with him, she came after me. Sent me pictures… not ones a wife wants to see. Nasty invasive emails.. blah blah. She stalked my facebook page and even my kids. If I ever see her, she will be sorry.. She is simply unharmed today because I have more important things to do then go to jail. My husband and I are working thru it. We are happy and strong. I still have a lot of built up anger, but in time I will get past it. I will never get past her, or the friends who deceived me. Sheís a worthless whore with 2 kids from 2 different dads and her daughter has the same morals and thinks what her nasty mom did is ok… and the bitch even left her husband because she thought she had mine.. Not bitch! Hereís hoping Karma gets her… and I will sit back and enjoy the show!