Well my husband was a music director for a community band. Tina was a member of this band. She was married and the mother of a young daughter. My husband and I had two daughters ourselves and had been married for 18 years. || I use to accompany my husband to band rehearsals and I myself thought Tina was a bit to attentive to my husband. Of course he always said there was nothing going on. || Well June of 2003 on a Saturday the band had a performance at a local community event. My husband rushed out and seemed in a hurry and did not want the girls and me to accompany him. The event was supposed to be a parade that morning. Well 10 pm rolled around. There was no sign of my husband. So I called my sister and the girls and I went with her to see if we could find him.We could not find him anywhere and it was obvious that the community event had been over for a long while. || When we arrived home, he was asleep on the couch. Well I confronted him and his response was I need to talk to you. Well in front of our daughters (who were 16 and 8 at the time) he admitted he was with Tina and he loved her! He then said he would give up everything including the kids for her!!! But then he said he didn’t want a divorce he wanted to see if it would work with her first. That night I kicked him out, Monday morning I was at the lawyer filing for a divorce. This was not the first time he cheated on me, but I was darn sure it would be the last time! || During our separation I confronted my then husband in front of the whole band he was directing (and she was sitting in the front row looking totally surprised) for the way he treated our oldest daughter when she went up to talk to him and came back to me with tears in her eyes and upset at the way he brushed her off. I called this woman just what she was and informed my husband that he had better not treat our daughter that way again or else I would kick his ass. Well a few days later I get served with a restraining order that Tina filed against me. She lied and told the police I said I would kick her ass!! Needless to say the restraining order did nothing to curb my anger and when I saw her a couple of times after that I did not hesitate to confront her and let her and him know what I thought of her! || Our divorce was a bitter one and throughout the years this woman has still been a thorn in my side. They are members of a church in their community and try to act so innocent but those who know them know the story. This man I had been married to for 19 years actually walked out the door leaving a mere $100 with us and telling me not to spend it all in one place! || This woman knew he was married… had two daughters (she had met us all before). But yet, her and him had taken all of our tax refund (something I did not know until we had divorced) and purchased land and had a home built!! || After our divorce was final in September of 2003 she actually waited until January 2004 to get her divorce. . She was roughly 3 or 4 months pregnant when she got divorced from her husband. Who knows whose baby it is … my ex claims it as his own. || Well now itís been 12 years. I have remarried and my ex and this woman are still together. I prefer to have no contact with her and neither do our daughters. We recently had our first grandchild and he actually had nerve enough to bring this woman and”theirĒ son into our home (we still live in the mobile home he moved us into). || This woman point blank told my ex prior to them marrying that she did not want to be a step Mother (he actually told me this). Now she tries to act like a concerned Grandmother that cracks me up as we all know the truth about her. || She destroyed our family. Yes it does take two to tango … but she knew they were both married to other people and that there were children involved on both sides if this equation and apparently she did not care. || As you can see from the picture … beauty surely was not a factor in their getting together … maybe playing a clarinet has benefits that I am unaware of!