I had been with a man for nearly six years, living together, but not married. Unable to work for long because I have Lyme disease, I just waited on him hand and foot. We share a large three story house and have dogs and cats…so cooking and cleaning were pretty much all day tasks. He started becoming distant when I asked about where we were heading…he was/is a commitment phobe. He started working more and more out of state, not calling or texting so I bugged his phone. I found texts calls and email to several women…one of them being Toni. He was staying with her when I was told he was in Oklahoma. He was seeing her from July through December. He waited till Christmas to dump me. Left me here with no heat, no car, no money over the holidays and nowhere to go. My friends brought food so I could eat. || Toni took it upon herself to send me texts telling me to get out of her boyfriend’s house. He said I could stay till I got on my feet. Then they broke up and he tried to have sex with me. Tried being the operative word….no way! Said she cheated on him multiple times, imagine that and he’d never talk to her again. It is now August, I’m still here and he is back with Toni and she is harassing me again. In her car yelling profanities at the house, slashed tires on the car again she’s making it harder for me to get on my feet. He is trying to stay neutral but even though I ignore Toni altogether, she is the worst kind of trash. I blame him more than her, he chose a known barfly over true loyalty. I am WAY cuter than her lol! But she ruined my life; she is a homewrecker and has the audacity to harass me as well.