So I met this homewrecker in 2003 while she was pregnant and engaged to her current husband of 6 1/2 years while I was dating his brother. We became great friends after zipping her into her wedding dress the day they married. We knew everything about each other and I even moved in with her to help her raise her daughter while her husband was deployed for the pregnancy and birth. Over the years, they separated. She cheated on him, I turned the cheek because he wasn’t faithful either but if he ever asked me, I never lied to him. She had 3 more kids and a few miscarriages. One was her husbands, the rest weren’t. She’s currently living with the father of her youngest who’s 6 months old. During this time her husband retired and moved home filing for a divorce but due to finances neither can afford it, she moving back to Salem Or. I loved her kids like they were my nieces and nephews dropping hundreds of dollars over 6 years for their Christmas/birthday presents. Never to receive a thank you from her, just the kids. || She was missing me and my kids this past October and I told her that when me and my bf (now ex) got paid, we’d spend a weekend or so. We went down for 1 day, staying in a hotel overnight. She finally met the one man that meant everything to me that I had been forever waiting for. They didn’t talk much which was expected because he’s a naturally quiet man. Upon being back in Washington for a few days, I get frantic phone calls and texts from her that her neighbor had committed suicide in front of his 2 year old and she aided him with CPR till medics arrived and on the way to the hospital, passed away. She was having PTSD from the tragedy. Being my ex has been deployed multiple times, he’s dealt with death. She asked if she could talk to him about how to put it behind her and move past the nightmares. I (stupidly because I fully trusted her) didn’t want to play middle man via text I gave her his number with his permission. He talked to her one day. No big deal. Then as the few weeks just passed his normally quiet phone would just chime like crazy. It was her. He’d say they were talking about how great the relationship was going and Christmas present ideas for her boyfriend since he loves knives. If he and I had an argument and I needed to talk about it to someone that wouldn’t stir the pot, Iíd call her. She would say things to me about”Youíre not the same woman I met years ago, I donít know why you stay you must really be in love with him. The old woman I knew would have left a long time ago”. Then messages between them on his phone would get deleted. Secret phone calls were made before he would walk in the door from work to his family with dinner hot on the stove and our apartment cleaned. Text messages from her saying”Jose (her current bf) is finally asleep.” and”I love you goodnight” She played that off like a auto text from her phone. || He came down with a bad cold that moved him to sleeping on the couch so to not disturb our daughter during the night. His coughing was horrible. As I went to my doctor for a 6 week postpartum check they did a routine pap. My results came back”inconclusive but signs of bacteria”. He accused me of cheating yet I never had the time with a newborn clinging to the boob and my oldest on my hip and I knew NONE of our neighbors on base. We went back and forth about breaking up and eventually did and I moved out the same night he choked me and slapped me while I was breastfeeding my daughter in between packing my things. We’ve talked in person a few times and were on the right track to mending our family back together. || Then today he tells me he loves her. That he’s IN love with her,”she says all the right things” -DUH that’s why she’s for 4 kids with 4 different men! || Just goes to show, that when you full heartedly trust someone and love like immediate family, they will still stab you in the back. Hope you’re happy now slut. The same way you got him. Is the same way you’ll lose him.† She’s desperate enough to have a military man in her life to agree to his double standard terms that I *never* agreed to, of an open relationship so he can be guilt free when he sticks his dick in another woman when he’s deployed and the sub docs in another country. Ladies of Salem Oregon, beware of Trish Makepeace. She may have her tubes tied so she can’t trap YOUR man. But she knows how to play them like a fiddle even when they’re 400 miles away.