Valerie Farley-Yu Chandler, Arizona Arizona

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years and we own a bar and restaurant together. After buying the bar, I kept my regular job so we could have insurance benefits and regular income while we worked on making the business profitable. After working my 9-5 job, I would spend hours working on our financials, new menu, marketing materials, etc. while he worked at the bar. On weekends, I was also at the bar, painting or getting things set up. There were many Sunday nights I worked in our bar until 3am, drove home, and then got up at 6am to get to my day job. || This lovely person came in to our bar one day and my BF was tending bar. They started talking and he told her he owns the place with his girlfriend. She proceeded to lay on the compliments saying stuff like, “Well why isn’t she here? If I had a boyfriend as good looking as you are I wouldn’t let him out of my sight.” She laid it on thick, telling him how funny, sexy, good looking he is. She s

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years and we own a bar and restaurant together. After buying the bar, I kept my regular job so we could have insurance benefits and regular income while we worked on making the business profitable. After working my 9-5 job, I would spend hours working on our financials, new menu, marketing materials, etc. while he worked at the bar. On weekends, I was also at the bar, painting or getting things set up. There were many Sunday nights I worked in our bar until 3am, drove home, and then got up at 6am to get to my day job. || This lovely person came in to our bar one day and my BF was tending bar. They started talking and he told her he owns the place with his girlfriend. She proceeded to lay on the compliments saying stuff like, “Well why isn’t she here? If I had a boyfriend as good looking as you are I wouldn’t let him out of my sight.” She laid it on thick, telling him how funny, sexy, good looking he is. She started coming in frequently after that, and if he wasn’t there, she’d have a beer and leave, but if he was there, she’d stay there drinking all night. She knew he had a girlfriend and she didn’t seem to have any respect for that. || The two of us were tired and stressed from trying to build a business. He quickly succumbed to the barrage of compliments and started an affair with this barfly. They had sex in the backseat of her car parked behind our restaurant, at her friends’ houses, and at a motel that she paid for. They even had sex several times in my house, in my bed, on the very sheets where we had sex that same morning! I even found the pictures he took of her in my bedroom, drunk and getting dressed in his clothes. (That’s the first picture of the three posted here.) || When they met, she told him she was in the process of a divorce. But a public records search shows that her husband didn’t file for divorce until after she already started fucking my BF. And her divorce wasn’t final until after my BF broke up with her to beg to come back to me. She told him that she didn’t have her own place to stay because she was waiting for her divorce to be final so she could get her own place. WTF? What supposedly successful person can’t get her own apartment? That was supposedly the reason they had to have sex at friends’ houses. || After a month of his dodgy excuses about coming home late, I confronted him. He admitted he was seeing someone else. He told me they had said”I love you,” to each other. I moved out by the end of the weekend and set about moving on with my life. I moved into my own place, amazing that I didn’t have to couch surf with friends. He could have his drunk little tramp. But I still had to see him occasionally because we still owned a business together. || Shortly after we broke up, she was arrested for extreme DUI. She hit another car and the other driver had to go to the hospital. He had to go pick her up from the police station. He says now that it was after her arrest that he started seeing her for who she is, a drunk phony who hits on any man, in any bar where she happens to have a buzz on. || Not very long after that, he broke up with her and called me begging to come back. He cried, telling me he made the biggest mistake of his life and he’d do anything for a second chance. He’s come clean about every detail, admitting everything, and I truly believe he is sorry. We are working on rebuilding and getting past his betrayal. || When he was sleeping with this little home wrecker, she repeatedly expressed concern about being discovered. She works with the public, needs people to trust her, and she said she was concerned that it would be damaging to her career if the story about what she was doing got out. I have a news flash for all you wanna-be home wreckers out there, if you are concerned about being discovered, then you know what you are doing is WRONG and you should STOP. || Even though we are attempting to work it out, I am still angry. I am angry at his betrayal, and he is doing everything he can to earn back my trust. But I am also angry at this little slut because she knew he had a girlfriend who was also his business partner and she pursued him anyway. She brought her shenanigans into MY place of business. All of our employees have since told me they knew about the affair, despite how good he thought he was at keeping it a secret. She even came into the bar while I was there and asked for him! And I’m angriest about the fact that she had sex with him in my bed!  With my pictures on the nightstand! She knew what she was doing was wrong and she did it anyway. That’s not a nice person. || She is 41 and has now been divorced three times. I can only imagine why. Ladies, watch out for this woman. She respects no one and nothing, and she’ll go behind your back to try to steal your man. Men, stay away from this woman, when the smiles and giggles wear off you’ll discover that she’s a phony drunk who needs to be babysat like a child. Oh, and from what I’ve been told, she pretty much sucks in bed. || Since he broke up with her, she’s actually texted me saying,”I always tried to be nice to you,” and,” I never meant to hurt anyone.” Really? Nice to me? Coming to my home and sleeping with my boyfriend in my bed is NOT my definition of a nice person. || And Ms. Farley-Yu, before you start texting me again, telling me you are going to sue me for defamation, let me remind you that I have proof of everything I’ve written here. I have copies of your receipts at our bar, so I know how often you were there, what you drank, and how much. I have all of his phone records including the content of your texts. I have the gps records from his phone, so I now know exactly when and where he was when he met you all over town. I have the pictures he took of you on his phone. I even have a copy of the hotel receipt. In order to win a case of defamation, you’ll have to prove that this story is substantially untrue. Good luck with that.

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