Vanessa Romero (Gonzalez) Phoenix, Arizona Arizona

So I have known this ugly whore for a long time. She has been friends with my boyfriend’s sister for probably close to 10 years because she is his sister’s ex’s best friends baby mamma (got all that? lol). She has been over for get togethers and bday parties at his sisters house and I always knew she had no class because she talks disgustingly vulgar but never in a million years did I think she was really as big of a whore as she sounds like when she talks. We weren’t friends on FB or anything but my boyfriend was friends with her boyfriend (who is now her ex) on FB. At the time I knew my BF’s password so I would login and see how completely degrading and disrespectful her bf was being to her at the time and I actually reached out to her and told her she didn’t deserve to be talked to like that and that her dude seemed mentally unstable and told her if she needed anything to let me know. That was in May 2013. We didn’t talk anymore after the

So I have known this ugly whore for a long time. She has been friends with my boyfriend’s sister for probably close to 10 years because she is his sister’s ex’s best friends baby mamma (got all that? lol). She has been over for get togethers and bday parties at his sisters house and I always knew she had no class because she talks disgustingly vulgar but never in a million years did I think she was really as big of a whore as she sounds like when she talks. We weren’t friends on FB or anything but my boyfriend was friends with her boyfriend (who is now her ex) on FB. At the time I knew my BF’s password so I would login and see how completely degrading and disrespectful her bf was being to her at the time and I actually reached out to her and told her she didn’t deserve to be talked to like that and that her dude seemed mentally unstable and told her if she needed anything to let me know. That was in May 2013. We didn’t talk anymore after the convo that day and still were not friends on FB. || Mine and my boyfriend’s background: || I have been with my boyfriend for 17 years. I met him when I was 14 (I am 32 now) and he was 18. We have always had a rocky relationship but for whatever reason can’t seem to be without each other. Over the years we both have done stuff we shouldn’t have but in 2011 we moved back in together after 8 years of living apart and HE said for us to put the past in the past, move forward and be different this time. I kept my end of the deal despite my being unhappy at times feeling like my needs weren’t being met and was able to see that while he isn’t perfect, neither am I. Something he apparently isn’t able to do because since his poor needs weren’t being met and he didn’t have all of my attention, he starts feeling sorry for himself and has to seek it elsewhere instead of realizing maybe he isn’t giving me everything I need either. We have a 12 year old daughter, and I just recently gave birth to our son, so I was pregnant when this all went down. My boyfriend and I are complete opposites; I am kind of an introvert happy being at home, I don’t drink or do drugs, I’ve never been in trouble, I’m not very outgoing and don’t have a ton of friends like I used to….so, to him, I’m boring and maybe I am, but I’m sure not everyone would think so. He, on the other hand, has a ton of friends, is constantly on his phone texting and talking, smokes weed and does coke, loves to be out and about hanging out partying. And while I’m not excusing the drug use because its a major issue, I do want to say that he always works and makes sure bills are paid….he’s a functioning addict. Because of his drug use, it caused him to have a low sperm count which is why there is such a big gap between kids, so thankfully, the job I was at had insurance that covered In-vitro Fertilization. I had literally just gone through a month of daily shots, the egg retrieval, the transfer and the day this happened went for my first blood test to confirm pregnancy. || The incident: || On August 30, 2013, this ugly skank had been babysitting our nephews for his sister and was using his sister’s car since she doesn’t have one. The car broke down and his sister text him to see if he could go see what was wrong with the car. He got the skanks # from his sister so she could say exactly where she was and send pics of what they thought was wrong with the car so he could show his mechanic. It all started out legitimately so innocent that its scary how quickly things can progress. I guess they were texting about the car and then he asked about what was going on with her ex (the one that I stood up for her about) and they were talking about that and it somehow turned into an all night sexting, sending dirty pics (which she is lucky I wasn’t able to get ahold of them or they would be included with this and would have been sent to her friends and family on FB!) calling to have an orgasm on the phone thing. You know where I was while he was probably out in our living room being a disgusting perv with some disgustingly ugly whore? I was pregnant, sick with a bad cold and in bed sleeping but poor him didn’t care that I was really sick, all he could think of was himself and what he wanted. So, this kind of talking goes on for at least 3 days with pretty consistent texting for about 10 days and then it just stops (I can see the phone records). I find out about this on Oct 3, 2013 when his sister messages me on FB to tell me because they were fighting and she was mad at him and the skank. She tells me that he was trying to f**k the whore and that she had seen text messages of him asking her if she swallows and her saying that she catches and swallows. She said the whore was like your brother is crazy, we’ve been talking all night. Supposedly his sister told her to stop talking to him that it was messed up because we are still together and she was just like oh shit, but it didn’t stop there….2 days later she is sending more pics! So, of course my bf texts her right away telling her that his sister was gonna tell me that he was trying to f**k her but that she knows what’s up. I message her on FB and she denies everything of course, swearing to me that his sister is just lying and was mad because she told him about his sisterís abusive bf who we didn’t know she was back with. She kept saying she isn’t a homewrecker, that she would never do anything like that, that he isn’t attractive to her because of his chest hair, that she has gone through this before with her ex so she knows how I feel, and even (and I’m not lying) put it on her sons life and fathers grave that nothing happened. I almost bought it, but then I decided to download the message history to an excel sheet and do a search by her number to see how many texts come and up and guess how many for 10 days? 466 text messages! They both were giving me BS about they were talking about his sister and her ex. He of course kept denying it saying how huge she was and how he has known her so long why wouldn’t he have tried stuff before. If I hadn’t seen the number of messages, pictures and times of the messages, I prob would have believed him. It wasn’t until I threatened to subpoena our service provider to get the message content so I could see what was being said that he finally came clean! He told me he asked if they could meet up a few times over the course of that night and the other days but that they didn’t because she always had her son. That he would tell her he couldn’t wait to do freaky shit with her including putting it in her ass (what is mens fascination with that?), that she was sexy as fuck from the pics she sent (not that weight makes a person not attractive or unworthy or anything and I’m not perfect or fit, but I’m like half her size) and asking if she was wet and if she wanted his dick and then had her call when she was having an orgasm so he could hear. Then I start coughing during all this and he is gonna text me and ask if I’m ok LOL! T || hen, a couple days later while he is still talking to her and trying to f**k her I get up to go to work and find a note telling me he loves me and to have a good day with lunch money. Something he would do before, so it didn’t seem weird at the time, but I think that is so f**ked up for him to continue to do while he knows what he is doing! He had also let me know that he had talked to her about what was going on with her ex during all of that and at the time I didn’t think anything of it….he was letting me know he talked to her and I knew what she looked like and that he had been talking about how huge she was and how nasty she is so I never even entertained the thought of something going on. I now know that he was telling me so if I looked at his messages log on our carriers website and saw her number I wouldn’t think anything of it….and he was right! I actually remember one of the days they were talking (before I found out) that I saw a pic message online at like 3am and called the number and my heart started pounding when I heard a girls voice, so I asked nicely who it was and she actually told me and as soon as I heard her name my heart stopped pounding and I never thought another thing. I thought maybe the time for the message was wrong online or that it was one of the car that finally went through hours later. He swears that they never met up in person and that I should believe him because since she is so big and he isn’t huge that he wouldn’t have been able to get it in anyway. That right there sounds weird to me, like how do you know that you for sure wouldn’t be able to do it if you hadn’t tried? There is one period of time on one of the days that he went an hour and a half without texting anyone, including her, that I’m suspicious about but who knows. || I can see by the phone records that it ended on its own and by the last few days they were texting it was just a couple texts and it was her texting him first where as the first few days was him texting her first. I think he either stopped trying to f**k her because she kept saying she couldn’t (according to him) or they tried to f**k, he got a blow job, something and stopped talking to her as much after that. She was also telling him she does whatever the guy wants and tells her to do lol but I think she is just a tease. If they didn’t meet up, then she doesn’t do all of what she says or she would have agreed to meet up and put her money where her filthy mouth is and do all the things he was telling her and wanted instead of talk and some pics. || Now she is with some new dude for barely 6 months, changed her last name to his on FB and got his name tattooed on her ring finger and a big spider on her neck that represents him because of his name. When I messaged her and told her that my bf came clean the coward had absolutely nothing to say and blocked me from FB. At the time I still had his FB password and changed his profile pic to one of her and posted on there what he did as if it was him talking. His other sister refused to believe it was true and was just like oh damn when he admitted it but came down harder on me for posting it on FB lol and changed his password for him and deleted the post because he was “embarrassed”. GOOD! He should be and so am I! I am just as disgusted with him and 9 months later, I still struggle with it even though I shouldn’t because I’m better than her in every way! It’s just the lies and betrayal and how dirty it all was; I knew her, I had stood up for her, told my bf he was mean when he would say how huge and nasty she was and was pregnant. Oh yah, AND I’m not one to get tattoos of guys on me, but after 17 years and thinking (despite our problems) that things were better, we both got our names tattooed on each other in July and the next month he does that! He created more past and I don’t know if I will ever fully get over it and that is something he will have to live and deal as a result of what he ‘s done in addition to not being allowed to hang out at his drug addict friends houses anymore and any number on the message log that I don’t recognize gets called immediately. || The whore likes the She’s a Homewrecker page, ironically, at least I think because I saw her share something that was posted on there. I hope she sees this, her friends and family see this and her new dude so he can see what a worthless piece of trash she is that not only she would do that but put it on her sons life that she didn’t! Ok, I know this is forever long lol. Sorry and thanks to those who took the time to read it :).>

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