I thought being in the Military was going to be fun, exciting and wonderful….boy how was I proven wrong. Around late August of 2008 met a guy that seemed sweet and honest and usually what any lady would wish for….things at first was awesome, then we rushed into Marriage overseas…then 6 weeks after getting married I got pregnant with our daughter and I was transferred to San Diego…… || Since I left he was whoring up the whole Japan and Naval ladies on the ships and whatnots….(He confessed to my mother…weird) And when he transferred to San Diego to be with his wife and infant daughter….he was using my credit cards to get Sex-Only dates online and looking for anyone that would let him f**k them. I wasn’t aware of all this until I was sent to South Carolina July of 2012 for Training…. THATS where the MAJOR issues arrived. || My paychecks were stolen from me by him so he can waste it on other whores and clubbing when he was supposed to be taking care of our daughter. Destroyed all items that were mine while I was gone. COMMITTED Adultery to now his fiance while still legally married to me. *she’s a whore too…* And then when I came home from training, he was gone a lot…and it was like huh? I thought we are a family and why are you not home when you only work from 7am to 4pm? || Come to find out the adulteress was having him over after work and he didn’t come home. He sold my wedding ring, pawned off all stuff that he didn’t destroy for money. Ran up his debt, left me in collections when I wasn’t behind on any payments, and then has the nerve to ask for money when he was active duty (still is) and I was a reservist…… He is already cheating on the adulteress and she’s stupid enough to believe him that I’m not the wife but a”baby-momma”… || Ugh, Ladies and Guys, STAY CLEAR FROM HIM!! || He is a sociopath with narcissism personality, manipulative pathological liar that will make himself the victim no matter what!!!!! || He’s a deadbeat father that doesn’t give two shits about his kid (he is behind on child support and paying his half of legal responsibilities) and is relying on me to pay his bills which I refused since the affair/adultery was brought to light November 2012 (and when I filed for divorce) He only cares about himself and will ruin everyone and everything to get what he wants regardless if its his own Flesh and Blood!!!!!! || RUN!